Emery Stanyek

Emery John Stanyek

Saturday, February 11th, 1939 - Thursday, June 18th, 2020
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Emery John Vincent Stanyek, 81 of Wethersfield, loving and devoted husband to Kathleen (Avena) Stanyek, peacefully passed away Thursday, June 18, 2020 at home with his family by his side. Emery was born on February 11, 1939 and raised in Brooklyn, New York, the oldest of three children of the late John and Nancy (Bonica) Stanyek. Emery was proud of his Italian/Hungarian heritage, loved searching through antique shops along the CT shoreline and watching his grandchildren grow up. Emery served our country in the US Army during the Vietnam Era at Fort Dix, NJ and retired after a long career with UARCO Business Forms where he was a yearly member of the 100% Club. He raised his family in Wethersfield where he enjoyed his time as a member of UNICO National, Wethersfield Chapter. Along with his wife Kathy, Emery will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by his two children, Jeff Stanyek of Cromwell and Christine Sousa of Wethersfield as well as three adored grandchildren; Emily, Meghan and Hailey Sousa. In addition to his parents, Emery was predeceased by his brother Joseph Stanyek. A Private family graveside service (to be live streamed) will be held Wednesday, June 24, 2020 at 11:30am in Village Cemetery, Wethersfield. The family requests memorial donations be made in Emery’s name to the Hartford Healthcare at Home-Hospice 1290 Silas Deane Hwy 4B, Wethersfield, CT 06109. The Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home has been entrusted with Emery’s funeral arrangements. To extend online condolences, share a memory and for live streaming instructions, please visit Emery’s webpage on
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    Wednesday, June 24th, 2020 | 11:30am
    Wednesday, June 24th, 2020 11:30am
    Village Cemetery
    Marsh St.
    Wethersfield, CT 06109
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  • Interment

    Village Cemetery
    Marsh St.
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Ted Clark

Posted at 04:31pm
Kathy and Family, Sorry to hear about the passing of Emery. We worked together for many years and had lots of laughs and good times. I will never forget the many Deep River UARCO picnics we attended and enjoyed every one of them with you and Emery. Our prayers are with you at this tough time.

From Michael, Joyce, Ava, and Emma

Posted at 11:34am
Sincere condolences for your loss.
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Kathleen A. Sullivan

Posted at 11:12am
I worked on forms design at the Department of Labor and worked closely with Emery for years. Thanks to him, we developed our first data-mailer for the agency and continued to use that format until new technology took over. He was a true professional and a mentor to me. He knew everything about his product and was a great help in teaching me how to design forms for data-mailers. Any problems that came up were quickly resolved by Emery. He was a nice man and a good teacher and I thoroughly enjoyed our professional relationship.

My condolences to out to his family and friends on his passing.

Kathleen A. Sullivan
DOL, retired

Joanne White

Posted at 10:24am
I just read Emery's obituary in the Hartford Courant. I send you and your family my deepest condolences as you walk through your grief. Whenever I dropped off something at your home or occasionally was with you and Emery for a gathering at The Children's Home, he was always very gracious and welcoming to me...just like you. It is wonderful that you could have home-hospice for him during this time of coronavirus. Love and blessings to you, Kathy. Peace be with you in the days and months ahead.I will be praying for you. Joanne

Kathleen Stanyek Posted at 04:00pm

Thank you Joanne. Your comments mean so much to me. Thank you for your prayers. Kathy

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Posted at 02:51pm
Our sincere condolences for your loss. The Allen family.
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