Michael Joakim

Michael Anthony "Mike" Joakim

Friday, November 16th, 1945 - Tuesday, July 9th, 2019
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Rocky Hill – Michael (“Mike”) Anthony Joakim passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family, at Saint Francis Hospital on July 9, 2019 from complications of pancreatic cancer. Two communities, Rocky Hill, CT and West Tisbury, MA, have lost a truly remarkable and honorable man.
Mike was born in Lisbon, Portugal on November 16, 1945 into a family representing several generations of service in the Belgian Diplomatic Corps. He was the oldest of three children born to the late George M. L. Joakim of Liege, Belgium, and the late Marye (Bowden) Joakim of Leamington Spa, England. His father was part of the WW2 Belgian Underground, a decorated paratrooper on loan to the British Secret Intelligence Service. Mike’s parents met while his father was recuperating from prisoner of war injuries in Gulson Hospital, Leamington Spa, England. Mike was very proud of his international heritage but gave up his European citizenship to become an American while in college.
Mike had many wonderful memories of enjoying the Portuguese fishing village of Costa da Caparica, and the Belgian seaside town of Coxyde on the North Sea with his parents and grandparents. After living in both Portugal and Belgium, the family moved to the United States in 1952, continuing his father’s diplomatic service with the Belgian Consulate in Washington, DC. The Joakims eventually moved to Westport, Connecticut where Mike graduated from Staples High School in 1964.
He continued his education by attending the University of Connecticut, receiving both his Bachelor of Science (1968) and Master of Science degrees in Civil Engineering (1972). He was a member of both Chi Epsilon and Tau Beta Pi Engineering Honor Societies. Furthermore, Mike continued his education during his career, attending both Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (Engineering) and Central Connecticut State University (Education). He was a licensed Professional Engineer in Connecticut.
While an engineering graduate student at UConn fifty years ago, he met his future wife, Betsey Keenan, a Salve Regina College nursing student, who became snowbound in Storrs, CT during an unusually heavy winter storm in February 1969. She became the love of his life, and they were married following her graduation in 1970.
In June 1969, Mike joined Pratt and Whitney, now a division of United Technologies, where he was hired into the Engineering Department. He started in the Structures Group, covering a variety of engine hardware and programs over 15 years. In 1992, he transferred into the Repair Logistics Group, which evolved into the Repair Development Group, Aftermarket Services Engineering, and Global Services Engineering (GSE). After several years as a Repair Engineer, then a Team Leader, in 1997 he was appointed as a FAA Designated Engineering Representative (DER), reviewing and approving technical data on behalf of the FAA. He was appointed GSE’s Validation Discipline Chief in 2004, responsible for Engineering Standard Work, repair design reviews, training curricula, and teaching engineering classes for Pratt and Whitney’s Engineering Technical University. He especially enjoyed lecturing in Ireland, Norway, Singapore, India, as well as locally in East Harford, CT. He retired from Pratt & Whitney in July 2013 after 44 years of service.

Over many decades, Mike and Betsey enjoyed many travel adventures, both domestically and internationally, with their growing family. Mike’s fondness for the sea continued into his married life as he and his young family discovered the beauty of the island of Martha’s Vineyard in 1971. After building their MV homes in West Tisbury, MA during the 1980s, the Joakim family enjoyed years of relaxation and fond memories on their island retreat. Mike delighted in spending his retirement years in both Connecticut and Massachusetts, while Betsey continues her nursing career, working for the Martha’s Vineyard Public School System.
Mike was an avid sports fan, being especially enthusiastic since his college years for the UConn Huskies basketball games played at Gampel Pavilion. More recently his focus turned to international motor sports, where he became an avid fan of Formula One racing. Mike followed each Grand Prix with an ardent passion since his favorite English cousin’s son, Christian Horner, OBE, is Team Principal of the competitive and very successful Red Bull Racing team.
Mike is survived by his loving wife of 48 years, Elizabeth (“Betsey”) of Rocky Hill, CT, and their four children, Suzanne Marye Polino and her husband Jim of Ocean Isle, North Carolina; Michael William Joakim of Tewksbury, Massachusetts; Christine Ruleau Roth and her husband Craig of Wethersfield, Connecticut, and Matthew Charles Thomas Joakim of Old Wethersfield, Connecticut.
He is also survived by his siblings, Christopher Charles Edward Joakim and his wife, Theresa, of Davidson, North Carolina, and T. Richards of East Haven, CT. In addition, he is survived by his step-mother, Joan Miano Joakim, of Norwalk, CT, and her children: Joseph (“J J”) Miano and his wife Csilla of Bekescsaba, Hungary, Andrea M. Light of South Norwalk, CT, and Philip A. Miano and his wife Nancy of Weston, CT.
Mike cherished being a grandfather, being blessed with 3 grandchildren, Charlotte and Madeline Roth of Wethersfield, CT and Joseph Polino of Ocean Isle Beach, NC. He also had 2 step grandchildren, Amber and James Polino of Ocean Isle Beach, NC. He is also survived by his cousins in Europe, Sara (Kenyon-May) Horner of Moreton in Marsh, Gloucestershire, England; Geoffrey Kenyon-May of Mas St. Puelles, France, and Fraser Kenyon-May of Coventry, England.
The Joakim family would like to thank Saint Francis Hospital for their extraordinary care during Mike’s last days of life. In addition, our deepest gratitude goes to Dr. Martin Hoffman, DO and the Yale Smilow Cancer Center physicians Dr. Jonathan Sporn, MD and Dr. Richard Shumway, MD for all their kindness and support as Mike battled his pancreatic cancer in Connecticut. Martha’s Vineyard Hospital Oncology Clinic/Mass General Cancer Center also provided additional exceptional care. Our thanks also extend to a very special and gifted MV nurse, Ms. Barbara Rush, NP, for her compassion and outstanding coordination of Martha’s Vineyard oncology services with the Yale Smilow Cancer Center at Saint Francis Hospital in Connecticut.
There were no calling hours, and his burial in Village Cemetery, Wethersfield was private. A memorial service will be planned for the fall. For online condolences, please visit the Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home website ( In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Mike’s memory to a maternity hospital in Haiti that is supported by Saint Francis Hospital physicians and MATH (Medical Aid to Haiti). Saint Francis Hospital Foundation - Mission House of Dame Marie (Blue Team) 95 Woodland Street, Hartford, CT, 06105
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Terese Joakim Dooley

Posted at 03:39pm
This was a shock to me. I heard the news with Thanks to my cousin Geoffrey, in France.
I will continue to send my prayers to Mike's family . There is never enough time in this life to understand
truly that Earth is full of Heaven. I pray that your passing was peaceful and that Dad and Mom and Granny and
Auntie Mary were all "there" to welcome you warmly. A Dieu, Miggy, Your Sis,
Teresa Joakim Dooley
East Haven,Ct.
Port Saint.Lucie.Fl.

Len Palmisano

Posted at 01:43pm
My sincerest and most heartfelt sympathies go out to the entire Joakim family for your loss. I, as most of us were, are devastated by this news. Mike was taken far too soon from too many. I worked with Mike for roughly 20 years before his retirement and only have fond memories of his dedication, commitment to excellence, and of course his infections smile and laughter. He was a role model, a leader, a mentor, a coach and lastly a colleague and friend. Those who worked with Mike quickly knew what to expect and it came without any arrogance, fanfare or bravado. May Mike’s legacy live on forever.

Len Palmisano
P&W GSE Design

Denise Lewis

Posted at 09:42am
Betsy and family , so sorry to hear about your loss. May you be blessed by the wonderful memories you have of Michael.

Oleg Ivanov

Posted at 12:49pm
This is very devastating news. I’m so very sorry to hear of the passing of Mike Joakim. Matt & entire Joakim family – Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss.

I worked with Mike for approximately 10 years. He was an experienced, knowledgeable and dedicated aerospace engineer. I learned a lot working with him on various projects as he was a good mentor & coach. He had high expectations but was consistent & fair. He will be missed but not forgotten as his signature is on various technical data that he validated.

Oleg Ivanov
P&W GSE Structures

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